It is possible to determine the partner's readiness for intimacy not only by the condition of his penis. An erection isn't always visible, but it's often important for a woman to be aware of what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man got aroused easily and by other often less direct signs.
Non-verbal signals
Willingly or not, a man through outward manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body manifests his interest in an object of the opposite sex. Non-verbal messages from a partner will help understand their condition and preparation for sex. Often the repetition of actions speaks of his desire. This "mirror" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
When communicating, a man seized by passion will try to get closer, to reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action takes place automatically without consciousness. In addition, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, to make body contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an offense without observing the rules of decency.
The contact will be rather relaxed, light, without obsession, but the excitement that a man experiences during such contact is clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and a certain nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to record the external manifestations in the behavior of a man. At the moment of excitement, he tries to straighten his shoulders, to tuck his stomach, to present his figure in a favorable light. Often, due to arousal, the partner begins to lick their lips, grab their chin, nose or ears with their fingers, which is also typical of women.
Signs of a man's arousal, manifested non-verbally, can be reduced to a small list of characteristics of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman - move a chair, open a door, help carry something or serve;
- he seeks to reduce the distance in communication;
- during a conversation, a man tries to make light body contact;
- a man, burning with passion for a woman, strives to be alone with her more often.
Man poses
The need to implicitly show sexual attraction arose in an era of strict rules and regulations, when attitude toward the intimate process was taboo by moral codes and church standards. The man and the woman had to demonstrate to their partner a willingness to act without fear of publicity and public censorship. It was in such cases that non-verbal signals made it possible to know tastes and desires.
Wanting a woman and not showing her is wrong, from a normal man's point of view. Therefore, a potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to demonstrate to the object of desire his interest through sexual gestures and postures.
The man shows most of the gestures and postures at the reflex level without realizing his sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly indicate an interest, others are more hidden and are only read by a girl ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he involuntarily begins to give an "alpha male". It denotes preparation for intercourse with confident postures and showing a high tone of the physical state of one's own body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man straightens his back and straightens the shoulders;
- tries to go deeper into the stomach;
- if a man is standing, his legs are shoulder-width apart, showing special stability and a strong position;
- it is also important to follow the position of the socks of the man's shoes, if he is interested in an attractive person, then they will be directed to this woman;
- if a man is sitting on a chair, he will involuntarily spread his legs apart, as if showing his own genitals, ready to mate.
The involuntary postures and gestures of a man wanting to take possession of a woman he loves often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during rutting and mating games, indicating the common roots of primates and humans. .
The excited man begins to straighten his clothes and hair, hoping to catch the woman's attention with her appearance. Instead of an angular and heavy gait, he moves quickly, like an athlete, while correcting the flaws in the figure, straightening up and removing his belly. A shine appears in the eyes, the skin of the face is automatically tightened and the bags under the eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and much more desirable to a friend.
Today, such a gesture is rarely used, and many have already forgotten about it, but even fifty years ago, thumbs placed behind a trouser belt meant rude and ostentatious action towards a woman, aimed at showing their owngenitals.
The delay in man's gaze on the object of his lust speaks volumes. When he looks a woman in the eye for a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, it indicates his excitement and his willingness to get closer.
The location of the hands on the hips shows a woman a man's physical superiority over other rivals, his power and strength, and therefore his will to procreate.
It is interesting that women are more sensitive to manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a possible partner, while a man may not understand the sympathy shown to him by the girl for a long time.
Physical events
The state of arousal in a man is manifested not only by an erection of the penis, but also by other physiological signs, which are often less obvious.
A man, subjected to passion, often straightens the details of his clothes, loosens the tie knot, which literally begins to strangle him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the tone of the voice can become more serious, the gaze becomes cloudy, the pulse quickens, the blood pressure jumps. Features of behavior during this period are very difficult to hide from outside attention, and even more so from the object of desire - a woman instantly detects such signs and consciously takes note of them.
A man can get aroused not only by direct manifestations of a woman's sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The coming wave of passion captures the partner and their behavior changes depending on the temperament and hormonal levels. General signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which in terms of symptoms resemble a state of stress. In addition to rapid breathing and heartbeat, changes in voice and pressure, increased muscle tone occur, pupils dilate, and increased salivation is noted.
During an erection, a clear liquid is released from the penis, which does not contain semen, but is a kind of lubricant that allows a woman's vagina to penetrate without much effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis in the form of a drop.
Fat comes from Cooper's glands and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- it removes the remains of urine in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina;
- the viscous consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for the release of semen;
- the lubricant allows you to perform friction during sex without hurting the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the human body and can range from a small droplet to 5 ml. The main purpose of excreting this fluid is to provide a favorable environment for the conception of a child. Neutralization of the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of a man's sexual arousal is an erection of the penis. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the cavernous bodies are filled with plasma, and the size of the organ noticeably increases in length and width.
The change in the size of the erect penis from the usual state depends on the individual characteristics of the male body, but it has been noticed that a small penis enlarges more noticeably than a more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, thanks to which its penetration into the woman's vagina is ensured, the man at this time is already completely ready for coitus, and the passion intensifies even more.
When penetrating a woman's breast, the man's body is even more involved in the process of intercourse. Heart rate increases, muscle tension reaches its limit, pressure rises even higher
and it becomes almost impossible to hold back the passion.
The climax of sex for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts 5-10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate while pushing through the seminal fluid of the urethra filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm may make sharp sounds and moans. The volume of semen depends on the constitution of the person and the duration of the abstinence.